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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As long as helping does not threaten your nuclear family in any way (your retirement, your children's college find), you help. Find a small, one story condo, one bedroom or studio, in a safe neighborhood, and get the mortgage in your name, give her a food allowance - set the funds up to auto transfer to her weekly or monthly and call it a day. Mom can take it or leave it, but you've done your part.[/quote] If I were to do this, I would order the groceries, staples and toilet paper and dish soap myself so that there is no fkkery. Just have a recurring monthly order on Instacart to be delivered. Bath soap, toothpaste, paper towel, towels, toilet paper, and very basic grocery staples that might be shelf stable.[/quote]
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