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Reply to "Husband wants me to be a SAHM after I got fired…what would you do?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think he is bringing up the old jobs to communicate to you that he sees a pattern. And the pattern that he sees is that you don't do well in a fast-paced setting. Maybe you could if you didn't have kids, but the energy level and executive functioning that is necessary to have two young kids and do well in a fast-paced job is just not something you've got. No judgment-- I don't have it either. The firing is evidence of that, and the earlier firing as well. I suspect he's finding you having the same issues on the home front and he thinks taking away the job pressure will help. Not sure what he means by "someone more stable" but probably someone more organized and less frazzled. I think if you want to work you should look for something that plays more to your strengths and doesn't require a lot of organization and speed.[/quote]
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