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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don’t think he’s cheating. We share locations and I know all of his passwords and accounts. Not to say it’s impossible. But I don’t think it’s likely. We also have an app which shows all of our investment and bank accounts in one place. If I attempted to change things around he would notice immediately. I think he’s selfish and depressed. But he won’t do any counseling or consider medication. He would prefer to sit in the basement and focus on his self, screens, and substances. He self medicates, I realize, and I feel like anything that places an expectation of any engagement or involvement from him he acts like is a burden. He is stressed with work and angry at the state of the world. I guess it’s easier to lash out and blame your family for your misery than to do the work on yourself. Finances and logistics are what scare me the most. Making it all work. Balancing everything with no family support and two kids. [/quote]
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