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[quote=Anonymous]I am not OP but could have written this. Some examples of things my husband did to shatter my trust:

- my pregnancy was very high risk. At 32 wks, I had to go into the hospital for complications and a possible early c-section. His plan was to drop me off at the front door and go to work. He’d come back after work, he said. I had to beg him to come inside with me.

- eventually had a preemie who needed to come home on an apnea machine and go to a lot of doctors appointments. In DC July, on the way home from an appointment, our car broke down. It was hot. I called for a tow. I called DH who was at work, who told me good luck. Tow took hours to come. A friend drove me home. DH never thought to call to check in to see if we were ok. I tried to call him again but he did not answer. He got home from work before we made it home and had forgotten about it.

- one morning baby was having breathing issues. I called the doctor, who said to bring her in right away. DH was at work with the car, so I called him and told him we needed the car for the doctor. He said ok. An hour goes by, he’s not home, I try calling back, now he won’t answer. Breathing is worse; I have to call an ambulance. (His job at the time was a 5 minute drive.)

- he’s been fired from multiple jobs. His jobs are low-paying, so his work excuses are unwarranted. I have been the primary earner for 95% of our relationship.

- he was diagnosedwith Adhd and executive functioning issues but does not propytreat them. Can’t handle tasks like remembering to lock doors, change oil in car, charge phone, pick up kid from daycare on time, feed kid food that isn’t rotten.

- I was diagnosed with major depression. Told him. He said, I had a feeling you were depressed. Then he never brought it up again.

I could go on and on but will stop. He knows I don’t trust him. Once the kid has flown, I’ll probably leave forever. [/quote]

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