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[quote=Anonymous]First and foremost you make sure there’s nothing else you don’t know about. I have a family member who is in the process of divorcing their spouse over similar issues and generally when they “confessed” it was just the tip of the ice berg and they had other debt and unmade payments that they continued to hide.

You have to do a full audit and make sure he’s actually being paying all bills he says he has, there are no other credit cards and no other accounts. I think there are ways to be sure you get a notification if someone has opened up a card, I would look into that. I know you don’t want to babysit your husband but you have to. My family member had their head in the sand and let their kids be in a house where the electricity was cut off and they would have been kicked out completely without help from family. You have to protect your kids right now.

You won’t know for a long time if you can trust your husband again. I would start getting things together for divorce in case if you need to protect yourself financially. If he gets it together then you don’t have to go through with it. [/quote]

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