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[quote=Anonymous]My BF and I have been dating about 10–11 months. The first few months were great, but around month four I found out he had cheated on me with one of Our friends. He’d meet up with her. He said it was “an accident,” apologized a lot, and promised it wouldn’t happen again. He’s a nice partner so I accepted his apology.

Except it didn’t stop. I caught him talking to other girls and he hooked up multiple times with one from work. When I finally said I was done and leaving, he somehow got my mom’s number and texted her saying that **I** cheated on **him** and that he was trying to forgive me, she believed him too.

I ignored it all and still tried to end things, but he kept apologizing and saying he panicked because he didn’t want to lose me. I ended up staying.

Now whenever we argue about what happened, he brings up that I “cheated” and says he has trust issues because of me. The “proof” he uses is that I went to an event with friends a while back and he saw pictures of me drinking there, and he says that means I must have hooked up with someone. That’s literally the whole thing he points to.

So when I bring up the cheating that actually happened, the conversation somehow turns into him saying he doesn’t trust me and that I broke the relationship first.

At this point the whole situation feels completely twisted and I don’t even know how to respond when he says these things. What would you do in this situation?
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