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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Over the weekend I had my first baby, and something just came to light that’s really bothering me. Last night my sister told me that while I was in the hospital, my MIL apparently turned away a friend of mine who came by to drop off a care package. My sister said MIL was in the hallway near the waiting area and basically told my friend something along the lines of “go, she doesn’t want visitors.” My friend was surprised and left. My sister caught up with her and said she was crying. ... How would you handle this? Address it directly now? Let it go but set boundaries going forward? I’m also aware I’m freshly postpartum and probably not in the most objective headspace. [/quote] Congratulations on your new baby and [b]you are being objective![/b] MIL needs to be told by DH that she is not in control of you and the baby at any location. Has to be addressed now especially if the creature expects to be helping in your house. [/quote]
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