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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why were you rude or weirded out?

There is an elderly woman who works at the front desk of my gym and scans me in most mornings. If I ran into her at Wegmans, what that man said to you would similarly be applicable to how I feel about this woman: she is so nice and kind in our brief daily words, and I think it would feel endearing to hear the same from her. It means connection.

You were the rude and weird one.

Next time ask for help if you need it. [/quote]
He meant it in a romantic way. Not in a friendly way. [/quote]

DP. He obviously crossed boundaries when he told OP “I think about you a lot”. Store employees should not say that to customers.
That is not kindness. It is inappropriate.

For this isolated interaction, I would leave it alone, I would not try to jeopardize his job by speaking to supervisor.
Re not being helped, again if there is pattern that you never get help anymore, I would speak up. 
But I suspect after the initial awkwardness, he will start to behave like a normal employee.

If not, then say something if there are 2-3 more instances where things are still not normal.

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Grow up. People are human beings and they have feelings. She was clear that she wasn’t interested so now he is leaving her alone. But NOW she is pissed that he isn’t fawning all over her when she wants something from him? No. That’s petty and immature. Move on. People are allowed to express interest in others outside of work.  How else do you think that people meet? [/quote]

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