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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - update. I got through to her. She just screamed at me and told me what a terrible person I am. And that I don't do anything for them and I wasn't kind to her because I didn't offer her lunch as soon as she walked in the door (even though I did make lunch later for her). She's screaming and crying telling me that I've done "this" to her and then told me all the things over my life that I did that she hates me for. She told me I'm making her life worse and she doesn't want to talk to me anymore.[/quote] I’m the first PP to respond. I recommend you do some research. I recommend Jerry Wise on YouTube. Look up his videos on trauma bonding. You will never change your mother. The only thing you can do is choose how you interact with her. But first, you need to accept that you are trauma bonded to your mother. I wish you luck. [/quote]
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