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[quote=Anonymous]Rationally, I think we can finally move forward with home projects but, emotionally, I can't wrap my head around spending the money. For context, I grew up poor. I recently sold my inherited childhood home and nothing was ever improved. Repaired, yes, but i don't think the house was ever even really painted. I've owned homes previously but typically moved within 5 years. We're in our "forever" home and there are some projects we want to do (think me hardwood floors, bathroom remodeling, hardscaping) but the expected costs have paralyzed me. I could use the proceeds from the home sale but paying in cash seems like so much of a hit to savings. A cashout finance seems like a huge undertaking (and I don't want to reset my mortgage). I think a HELOC is the right move but then I think about the extra monthly payment that I'm not crazy about. We're fine monetarily and my financial advisor even says it's okay to spend a little, but damn it's hard envisioning this output of money. Anyone else struggle with this? How do I move forward? [/quote]
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