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[quote=Anonymous]I didn’t really get the sense from the post that she meant big parties with all the decorations. It seems like it’s more about families like my xH’s - our kid has never even met my former FIL, and have seen my former MIL for maybe a total of 2 hours. There’s no ill will, it’s just that nobody can be bothered to go visit each other. I don’t really understand the gifts issue she mentioned. Everybody nowadays doesn’t want gifts because it’s just more junk to clutter their house, everybody prefers cash or gift cards. It’s totally fine to not throw a gazillion celebrations. It’s actually probably better for kids if you don’t. Do it if it brings you joy, but if it doesn’t, it’ll just cause resentment and your kids will end up complaining about you anyway. [/quote]
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