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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: I'm on her checking account, where she keeps a decent amount of cash. I can't imagine just telling her I'm taking out X amount; she would need to talk to our advisor and have him move things in and out of accounts for tax purposes. Would it be inappropriate for me to ask our advisor to address this with her?[/quote] No you need to just be direct with your mom. Your advisor can't ask for money from you. It sounds like your mom likes a bit of strings attached? If that's the case, then go cautiously. If, like another PP said, she doesn't like the admin, then you should just say "You offered x- would you like to pay all at once or have me set up x a month? Larla will be very grateful to you and will send you a Thank You note" - then she clearly understands what she is doing, that there is an end, and appreciation?[/quote]
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