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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, I’m sorry OP. That is a lot to go through. Second (and I know this is easier said than done, and I’d feel similarly if I were in your shoes), remember that comparison is the thief of joy and peoples’ lives are rarely what they seem.

You mention three main areas above that are goals you’d like to achieve. I’d look at what is stopping you from achieving them and break them down into small, manageable steps/things you can commit to doing. For example: you talk about being interested in buying a home. Maybe you can start doing research or going to open houses to get a sense of what areas or types of homes you like and what your price range is, then develop a plan to save money for a down payment: working a weekend shift somewhere; maybe moving in with a roommate for a year to aggressively save. As for the dating, you could commit to going on one online date a week, or joining a social group that attracts a lot of singles and attending regularly.

It is never too late for anything and the more you love yourself and your own life, the more you will attract other like minded people. Good luck OP!! [/quote]

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