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Reply to "What do people who get cheated on tell themselves?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I've seen a lot internalize their partner's actions and feel bad about themselves. How we respond to cheating is largely survival-based. If we feel dependent on our spouse then we are more likely to blame the third party rather than the spouse. Or blame ourselves. Anything that means our spouse won't leave us. It's natural to seek control in situations when we don't have any. Thankfully we live in a society that allows divorce. The healthy response is to understand that cheating is abusive and unhealthy behavior, and to put up with as little crap from that point on as possible. If you decide to stay together, do so without blinders on. Be ready to leave if unhealthy behaviors continue.[/quote]
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