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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like the PPs would rather their spouse just dump & divorce them rather than have an affair, as if that's morally superior. My exH left me and we had a young child at the time. He stopped wanting to do things together, didn't want to share his thoughts/hopes/dreams, and would come up with excuses to not have sex. We went years without him be willing to have sex with me. Nobody, not his family, friends, colleagues could believe he wasn't happy with his life and our marriage. (FTR- I'm younger than him and didn't gain weight or lose my looks. I was always way better looking than him and considered out of his league.) I seriously believed he might have a brain tumor or some sort of chemical imbalance but he wouldn't get checked by a doctor. As far as I know to this day, he wasn't cheating. But I don't believe he had more integrity than a husband who cheated. Either way, he flaked on his marriage and he flaked on the children he brought into this world. That's not what someone with integrity does. [/quote]
You haven’t gone through the pain of infidelity. Everything your ex did would have been 1000x worse.[/quote]

Perfect response![/quote]

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