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[quote=Anonymous]1.  What is "collecting tattoos"?  How many tattoos do you have?

If you have a LOT of tattoos, or if you have one or more tattoos on your neck, legs, and forearms, that could be putting some women off, especially if you are going for women who have a certain "look" that might not be the female equivalent of someone who "collects tattoos."

2.  Are you going after the most physically beautiful women only?

I ask this because I have a colleague in his early 40s who is single, and who frequently talks about how he would like to get married and have a family.  While he is perfectly nice to look at and has a reasonably good, he's not super handsome in a movie-star way, either, and he is not a billionaire.  He sometimes talks to me and other married women colleagues for advice, in which he repeats that he "only wants the best", which to him means the most physically beautiful women he sees on the dating apps.  He's showed me photos of some of these girls, and the ones he targets are always between 25 and early 30s, so younger than he is, plus have model gorgeous looks.  It is very clear to me that the kind of woman he considers "the best" is not going to consider him a catch.  I have pointed out profiles to him of women who are close to his age and maybe not super model gorgeous (but still are nice looking), and he flat-out refuses them.  I know he is going to be single for a very long time.

Could you ask your female friends to look at profiles on whatever app you are using and ask them to suggest some profiles for you to contact?  And then actually do it, and meet those women?

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