Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "What do people who get cheated on tell themselves?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Inspired by the other thread, I'm wondering what people tell themselves when their spouse cheats on them. Do they reflect on their own behaviors and patterns and consider [b]what role they played in creating the circumstances that led to the affair[/b]? Do they care whether their spouse wants to leave them for the AP? Is it less devastating if the spouse wants to stay married?[/quote] Nah, I'm only responsible for the things I can control. I don't control someone else's behavior. If "my" partner has low enough integrity that they're willing to cheat, that's about them. If I get dumped, I'll look into the reasons. If I get cheated on, it's because my ex was a cheater.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics