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[quote=Anonymous]I am ashamed to say I was a bit like you described. In my case, I was raised in a physically abusive household and didn’t realize that yelling wasn’t better than beatings. The day I realized it, I did everything I could to change. I loved my kids and wanted to be the dad I never had, thankfully I realized it before it was too late. The biggest thing my therapist helped me realize is that I didn’t communicate openly with my wife about our relationship. I collected and stacked frustrations until I exploded, apologized and hated myself for being a failure at home. Once I started telling my wife when I felt disrespected, unappreciated and unimportant in real-time, it became a lot easier to regulate my responses to everything in life. I am ashamed of how I was sometimes, but I love who I am for my kids now and am grateful that I had a great therapist to help me become the man I am today.[/quote]
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