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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Help her realize this does not have to destroy her life. [b]We've been culturally condition in the U.S. to think of this as some kind of ultimate betrayal. [/b] But in many cultures--France, Japan, etc., this kind of things is not uncommon or even so taboo. Help her to not overreact. Keep it in perspective.[/quote] Are you the cheating husband?[/quote] No. I just understand the fact that some kind of crazy overreaction only dissipates wealth and stability for the children. I married into a French family, and they think American divorce culture is basically like cutting off your nose to spite your face. Or, more like cutting off your kid's nose to spite your cheating husband. Who has the energy or the reservoir of spite like that?[/quote] I feel sorry for you. -NP[/quote]
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