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[quote=Anonymous]Been in your shoes. I don't have time for the broken record...about literally anything that is in my spouse's power to change. I get he wants to vent, but don't you also want to come home and not have your home life turn into a pity party? As a spouse, it's not my job to be on the receiving end of every feeling or thought that comes into my spouse's head, and that goes both ways. He needs to go find friends or relatives to vent to you. You can't be held hostage so he can vent every night and then sulk. I would feel differently if he had really tried to apply to other jobs, had something happen outside his control, was being unfairly targeted and could not find another job due to other circumstances...but just complaining to complain? Nope. He needs to be an adult. It is not acceptable to have an adult be in a bad mood and sulk every night, and be incapable of pulling their weight but simultaneously not being okay with changing the situation. [/quote]
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