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[quote=Anonymous]It's not part of our culture to be loyal to friends to such an extreme (and that's OK, there are a lot of trade-offs with that). In the moment, it's hard for your friends to be happy for you, because they are feeling emotional and unprepared. With some time, they may come to see that the move was the right thing for you. It may turn out to be the wrong choice, but you have made it and now you do the best. Take your friend's feelings as a compliment: they are sad to see you go. If the friendship is real, a one-hour drive is not a huge issue. If the friendship is situational, well, they will find someone else similarly conveniently located. Unless you have recently assured your friend that you wouldn't move and they've made their own decisions accordingly? That's the only situation in which I'd say you are in the wrong.[/quote]
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