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[quote=Anonymous]Not defend or justify it, but understand the logic behind it.

Redpill men and tradwife women believe that a woman should marry in her early 20s, preferable as a virgin, and stay home and raise children. Got it.

This means that a woman that young needs to be able to find a man willing to settle down. Men in their 20s rarely want to settle down or take anything seriously. So, they need to find much older men? And if the man lies or cheats or uses her, it’s her fault for not being able to read minds and know his intentions? These same men also want a woman who is good in bed and “sex-positive.” But if the man doesn’t marry her, and she has to start over, that counts against her “body count.” But if she withholds sex and demands marriage…that’s also bad, apparently? She has to work some kind of magic to make a man want to settle down and marry her, without trying to trap him into a marriage?

Now the economics of it all. Tradwife at 22? Stay at home? One income, IN THIS ECONOMY? This requires her to only aspire to marry rich. But then it’s her fault for being a gold digger. 
But then what happens if his high paying job is offshored to India? What if he’s replaced by AI? Who is going to pay for that rustic kitchen where she bakes bread from scratch?

Look, I’m all for the choice of early marriage/stay at home wife if that’s the life you want. I just don’t think the math adds up. Today’s economy has layoffs all over the place and everything is unstable. One income is simply too risky.  It also puts all the blame on the woman if anything goes wrong. If she dates too many men before marriage - it’s her fault for having a high body count. If she settles down with the first guy who courts her, and it doesn’t work out, or if the guy lies and cheats, it’s her fault for not being a proper judge of character at age 20. If her husband loses his job, she has to suck it up and be poor, or it’s her fault do not being a supportive enough spouse.

Never mind feminism, the math just isn’t mathing. [/quote]

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