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[quote=Anonymous]I think this is a great idea, OP. Your list seems comprehensive. I might suggest that you make periodic check-ins rather than waiting for the anniversary of the suck, depending on the length of time you're looking at. I'd review this weekly, if it were me, just to make sure things were on track. A few I might add: Do I feel safe around this person? How does it feel to be in my body when this person is around? What is my motivation for staying/working on this relationship? What does healing from this situation look like for me? Is my effort toward reconciliation being matched/reciprocated? Who do I feel safe discussion this situation with? I wish you the best with your journey. Recovering from betrayal is possible, and it's a lot of work. Be gentle with yourself.[/quote]
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