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[quote=Anonymous]I totally agree with the poster above. I'll add to answer # 1, I know transmen who can pass, either after top surgery, or because they were small chested and can bind. As far as your question # 1: Passing isn't about no one knowing that you are trans, just like being closeted wasn't about no one knowing you were gay. It's about being in control of who knows, and being able to pick and choose. People can choose to tell the people who need to know (e.g. medical providers), and the people they trust (e.g. romantic partners, close friends, trustworthy members of your family), while not sharing with people who don't need to know, like the cashier at the grocery store, your neighbors, colleagues, and people who haven't shown themselves to be safe. [/quote]
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