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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ex says he doesn’t want to live here anymore and plans to move to another country and marry a woman he met there while working. This would happen as soon as our kids turn 18.
I am quite sure this will be devastating for our kids, even when they become adults. I’m 47 and my dad is a very important part of my life and I don’t see that kind of relationship happening between kids and ex if ex moves to another country.

It hits hard, especially since we moved to this area when the kids were little (away from my family) in order for ex to live his best life in his dream job. And now the kids are teens, and this is all they know.

I know there isn’t really anything I can do about it. It isn’t so much about his repartnering (as I have also repartnered) but his moving to another country 14 hour flight away and potentially starting a new family (even though he really doesn’t want more kids)
I just feel this is going to be much harder on the kids than if this woman were to move here, but she seems to have a good life where she is and does not want to.

Anyone BTDT?[/quote]

I am divorced. Divorced men say a lot of things and it rarely pans out. Don't borrow trouble. Go about your life.[/quote]

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