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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think so. It's really disrespectful and if I was going down that road, I think I'd prefer to separate and date other people. I think affairs are escapes and they mask bigger issues, both in yourself and in the marriage. It's making a bad situation worse. That said, my DH's affair was a great catalyst for us. Most painful thing I've ever confronted, but going through it changed our marriage and definitely woke DH up to the fact that he was becoming a person he wasn't proud of. People only have so much energy, and affairs require a lot of energy. It means you are taking away from your spouse and family. And marriage and raising kids is hard enough. For my DH, it seemed like a solution/escape/numbing in the short term but caused him a lot of humiliation and shame in the long term. [/quote]
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