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[quote=Anonymous]Have a serious, sit-down talk with your BF and let him know the ride is going to start getting VERY bumpy. When you have an ex who is angry and difficult, it does not bode well for any of your future partners. You must fully expect that your ex will say and do everything he possibly can to poison your relationship - including using the kids as his weapons. Whether it is overt or covert comments or actions, your children are going to be on the front lines of bullets being fired towards you and your partner from your ex. Often, this never stops even when the kids reach adulthood. Especially if they have been indoctrinated for years that your partner is a bad person, he broke up the family, he doesn't want the kids around, and any other lie your ex can dream up. Tell your BF before you go any further in this relationship that he may very well wind up the scapegoat and it might never change no matter what he does. Ask him if he is ready for that...[/quote]
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