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[quote=Anonymous]Why are you making DS shoulder the burden? You as a family do not spend holidays with her but are making him decide how to handle one of the biggest events of his life? We are extremely low contact with my ILs and will not be inviting them- if they do ask, DH will explain to them we do not have enough tickets and cannot accommodate them at the after party, which is at a restaurant with several sets of stairs. They don’t get to check out of my DCs life or abuse them when they do see them and then get to play doting grandparents. My own father lives 15 hours away, cannot fly and has very limited mobility. I asked him not to come as the focus needs to be on DC and not my father and his ailments- not to mention he is a complete Debbie downer and would try to make everything about him. I love him, but this is not the time or place for him to be grandpa. [/quote]
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