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[quote=Anonymous]I have a person in my life I have known for about two years. I work with her but also know her in my social circle and they are good friends with several of my friends. For the first year I knew her, she seemed great. Fun, friendly, good conversationalist, makes friends easily. I had no issues with her at all, in fact was starting to consider her a friend.

But then I caught her in a weird lie. I knew she'd gone out of town with a mutual friend on Saturday day and night, because I'd spent the following day with that friend and they'd told me all about it -- they had a good time. But at work on Monday, she told an elaborate lie to a coworker about what she'd done over the weekend. The lie was detailed and framed her in a very sympathetic way, it involved an injury and a hospital visit that I knew had not happened. I didn't say anything at the time because it was so weird and I honestly thought I'd just misheard either my friend's story or hers.

But then it happened several more times. On one occasion she told me and another woman that she was very close friends with someone I know. Later I saw this person and said "oh we have a mutual friend!" but she had no idea who I was talking about and had not done the things this woman said they'd done together.  It was so weird. And then a few more instances I won't get into but all along a similar vein.

My impression of this woman has been very changed since I've noticed this. I no longer like her and I prefer not to socialize with her when I can. But I haven't vocalized any of this to her and don't think I should -- it would create drama at work. Also, I now worry she would be weird it. Now that I know how easily she lies (and for no reason that I can understand), I worry she might lie about me. It's almost like she seems like a dangerous person now.

But she's so convincing! So friendly, so well liked. If I hadn't encountered this strange behavior, I'd still think she was great. But now I feel weird and I don't know what to do about it.

WWYD?[/quote]

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