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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, I have no plans to divorce and love my husband very much. But my attitude has changed with menopause. My big example is that I’m just not willing to be the ringleader of the troops to get us places on time. I’m tired, really tired.

Example — He has ADHD and is time blind. I’ve spent years running around to get myself and two kids ready to be able to get places on time. I just can’t do it anymore. I need to sleep in later. I need to not be so crazed. So, a few days ago we were 30 minutes late to meet his family for lunch. He was losing his mind rushing around the house when he realized I hadn’t just taken care of everything. I just… didn’t care. Hilariously, Since his whole family doesn’t care about time management, they were all 20-30 minutes late as well.

But we won’t divorce. He is an amazing husband and father. We will just be late for stuff. Oh well.[/quote]
+1 this is absolutely my change in attitude with menopause. Just can't change people anymore.  Oh well.[/quote]

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Husband - kids - siblings - my parents etc

I love them, and I cannot change them.  I’m also doing the same thing with time. Teen DD was late to a final and worried she wouldn’t be able to take it before Christmas. My only response ‘that’s really irresponsible of you. What are you going to do?’[/quote]

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