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[quote=Anonymous]I had a very similar situation where a former super close friend just kind of stopped answering texts as often and didn’t want to get together as frequently. She had also initiated the friendship and we had been incredibly close, the distance came out of nowhere. I posted on here and the answers were that saying anything comes off as needy/clingy. I did end up saying “I miss hanging out with you!” And she responded with something like “I know, right? it’s just a super busy time” I reached out to her more than she to me, and I felt a lot of sadness with that.

FWIW we are still friends years later, but I don’t think we would be if I hadn’t continued to reach out to her (every few weeks) with a GIF or check in text. We have fun when we hang out, but it’s not the same as before. And she does initiate getting together with me, so it’s not like it’s just one sided, it’s just very different than before.

If I were you I would assume that it’s not personal, I would send her a very specific invitation and see how she responds, and since your kiddos are still close I would maintain a positive attitude as long as you can handle it. [/quote]

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