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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually find it puzzling that people post on an anonymous forum and think everyone will be supportive.  If you want to hear the answers you want to hear, ask your friends in real life.

I think there is a subset of comments that genuinely get mean and are inappropriate but a lot of times people are very directly and kindly telling the truth.  I think women are not used to this in real life since we can lack directness face to face.[/quote]

I agree there's a difference between kindly saying something hard someone might not want to hear or even saying something uncomfortable that's based on a misinterpretation or an incomplete OP versus being rude or insulting.

I read OP's question as being about people who are rude or insulting. There are plenty of those here. It's never necessary to say "why would anyone ever want to do/go to stupid X?" Just move past or suggest another activity with insulting anyone. It's never necessary to say "I can't believe you only have/don't have XYZ trait/preference/item/money.' Again move on or frame your advice to gain the the thing kindly and explain how it's helped you.

My theory is miserable people don't believe in everyone's inherent value. So they don't extend any value to themselves except by comparing themselves into superiority.[/quote]

"WithOUT insulting anyone"[/quote]

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