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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean this gently and with sincere curiosity, aimed at understanding more and offering helpful advice and commiseration:

Was DH like this when you dated/were first married? Or is this a new behavior, or a behavior that has popped up with age and over time?

Forget your ILs: they are old people who don’t actually need to matter to you, at all. They’re not going to change.

But with DH, it’s important to know if this is how he’s been all along, or if this is increasing/a new behavior. [/quote]

It’s an increasing frequency of behavior. 
He thinks the low fat, low sodium meals I prepare are just for him. We are a family of four.

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Trying to imagine the scenerio-- your family sits down for dinner and he takes all the food? If so, he gets served last.[/quote]

My new strategy is to sit with kids first and not waiting for him to get home ( since he doesn’t bother to call me when he’s delayed). I no longer wait for him. 
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