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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They need to break up and he knows it, that's why he's upset.[/quote]

I think they should break up for both of their sakes but I doubt it is going to happen. I think the friend thing is really upsetting him but the reality of it is he was too focused on her the first semester and that led to him not prioritizing socializing on campus. In high school they were in the same activities (met doing same sport) so it was a non issue.[/quote]

This is precisely why (IMO) most kids should not head off to college with a Significant other.  Break up, let each find their path at college, and if it's meant to be, they will come back to each other.  But don't strap yourself down during fall freshman year to be "on the phone FaceTiming your SO" while everyone else is making friends, socializing and having fun.  By January, many have already formed great groups of friends and it will be much more challenging to do so.  Best time is in the fall when everyone is new and looking for friends.

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