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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s easier to weep over having “no idea” than to do the work to do better. They also get more sympathy from other “no idea” parents/families. [/quote] +1. It sounds like they couldn't even handle your negative feelings about things that have nothing to do with them, like work. There's no way they can handle accepting that they did something wrong to you. People who can't take accountability are the weakest people in the world. They may put on a tough front and deflect everything back to you, but they are the emotional equivalent of toddlers. Stop trying to make them react the way you want them to. They aren't capable. You're welcome to stay away from them if that's what you need. You owe them nothing.[/quote]
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