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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe this is unique to my situation but I don’t understand how others are keeping it going. I’m in a very unwanted and very unpleasantly litigious divorce.

Everything seems to hinge on documentation. Pulling old documents. Summarizing old emails. Pulling financial statements and receipts and more emails. Pulling old texts. Keeping track of everything in the stupid parenting app thing. Writing every email as if it’s going to be read by a judge to the entire town. Taking notes after every time my kids have visitation. Taking notes of visitations refused, pickuop times, early drop offs. Recording changes in health and grades and activities and everything else.

I have primary custody right now and am working and am doing everything at home and many nights I’m up until 2-3 and back at it at 6 am to start all over. Just when I catch my breath something like an attorney meeting or a hearing or another deadline or a home observation pops up and I’m back to working in the wee hours to prep.

I don’t know anyone who is divorced and I don’t know how unusual this is. My attorney is supportive and on top of things and assures me this isn’t typical but that I have to keep going. I have the sense that STBX and his attorney are trying to wear me down to get me to surrender in terms of finances or custody.

How do people do this?[/quote]

This is not the norm. I am sorry.[/quote]

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