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[quote=Anonymous]Do your MIL and FIL work? I've noticed that some people who don't work think other people have all the leisure time in the world as well. The problem is your DH should have said no on your behalf when he declined. And you should have made it clear to him prior that if he didn't go, you are also a no show. But instead, he left the decision up to you and that is why you are being blamed because clearly you could have attended but chose not to because DH wasn't going. If you perceive yourself as a non-splitable social unit with him, then you need to tell him that so he understands any decline on his part is also by default a decline on your part.[/quote]
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