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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Low-earning, ADHD, messy, and inflexible would be deal breakers for me. I was married to that and it was awful, I ended up paying 70% of the bills AND doing 95+% of the domestic work. We did have kids, though. Have you lived with him? I'd give it a trial run of living together and see how you feel. But personally, I could never be in another relationship where I was both making the money and cleaning the house. What's the point of living with someone if you still have to doe everything?[/quote] This. I earn double what DH does. But he has no diagnoses and does all the investing and most of the house cleaning, groceries, kid activity shuttling and leisure planning. [/quote]
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