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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obviously the beautiful, well proportioned, young women don’t have to do anything to attract and pursued by a rotating suite of suitors. But [b]if you’re an ugly or average woman…you don’t get a string of suitors[/b]. Men don’t chase you except for random construction workers whistling at you.

I find I have to make a move to let a guy know I’m interested and even then I get rejected. What’s a good strategy for women like me? [/quote]

Yeah, you do. If you're an average woman who can present herself well and smile and make eye contact and say hello, you'll have no shortage of suitors. I've been plain-to-meh my whole life, and never wanted for male attention. You don't have to "make a move"; just show a bit of interest and be something less than horrid to be around. I don't even wear makeup, I dress to depress, and I still get attention I'd rather not have. If I actually wanted attention, I could have more.

A good strategy is to lose this victim attitude, get some confidence, and start trying to connect with people. It's not nearly as hard as you're making it seem. Many men are desperate for attention and happy to reciprocate the slightest acknowledgement. [/quote]

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