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[quote=Anonymous]Things like sports gear or things for other extracurriculars gets purchased throughout the year as they need it. Kids in college got their laptops as HS graduation gifts, not at xmas. New bikes have been given as birthday and xmas gifts, depending on timing. Since we don't generally spend big at xmas, I prefer to give a new bike on a birthday where the kids aren't directly comparing each others' gifts the same way they naturally will do at xmas. We try to be equal in spending at xmas. Clothing is mostly purchased in season as needed. When we were introduced to the buy/wear/etc. idea, I struggled with the "need" category and was told by a couple people that a good example of a "need" gift was a new winter coat. That made no sense to me because if my kids need a new winter coat they will get it in the fall before the weather is cold. Once they were in their teens, they requested more clothing gifts so they usually do get something to wear, something to read, and then a few other "wants". [/quote]
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