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[quote=Anonymous]Absolutely separate checks, and specify it in advance so people know to expect it. At a home, whoever initiates and hosts decides. “I’ll order enough pizza for all. Sister can you bring dessert? Brother can you bring a salad?” I do think that whoever is hosting should plan to provide the majority of the food. We were at a wealthy family member for a recent gathering and right before the evening was over they asked how much we wanted to chip in for the food. We were taken aback. We have the money and don’t mind contributing, but it was a super awkward question after the fact, while also not specifying “we are splitting this 4 ways and here’s the total.” [/quote]
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