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Reply to "Accomplished woman trying to date after a long marriage - men are drawn primarily to my caregiving abilities"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I meant that 25 years ago guys cared about my career, our potential standard of living, and compatibility of our hobbies. All this does not seem to be important to them now. [/quote] I think part of it has to do with aging in general, as people get older they are less interested in things like income potential and accolades, accomplishments. One way of seeing this is, yes, they just care about your caregiving, home making abilities, and how well you can serve their needs. Another way of looking at this is that as people become elderly (not you, but your dates), your personal qualities, your ability to love and care for someone and connect with them on that level, matter much more than work and even hobbies. There's something nice about that.[/quote]
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