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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is possible to rebuild and fall back in love again, with a lot of hard work and commitment. You need the help of a Gottman style marriage therapist. And he needs to start working with a anger management therapist ASAP Please please give it a try, and see if you can save your family and get back to the man you once loved[/quote] Be careful with this advice- DH lasted almost a year on his best behavior after 18 years married, 1 year separated and I thought he had finally gone back to his old self- (happy, loving, charming, not the narc jerk who had been showing up for almost 10 years) and we reconciled after living apart for almost a year. Well the cracks started showing about 3 months, 6 months, 9 months, a year- they keep creeping back up, lasting longer and now I’m the person who called wolf stuck in a shitty marriage with an almost 18 year old DC headed to college. Wondering where my life went and where do I go from here. How this person I have loved for half my life can be such a thoughtless, selfish, uncaring jerk - making digs about the pasta sauce not being hot enough, despite never cooking a meal or cleaning the house even though I work longer, harder and make 3 times what he makes. [/quote]
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