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[quote=Anonymous]This is not your responsibility. You became involved due to vulnerabilities in yourself and your own marriage, but you did not create the monster that is her husband, or the dynamic in their marriage, and you can’t solve it. She’s the only one who can. If your out if contact but still “terrified” and taking responsibility for her plight - are you codependent? An adult child of an alcoholic? What was life like in your family if origin? You’ve got some unpacking to do, but it’s not over the fence in their yard - it’s in your own. That is the only way to truly stop carrying her baggage - to focus on yourself and your own marriage and what you want out of life. So no - do not contact her or try to help. It’s not possible, and if it were, you are not the person to do it. And at this rate, it sounds like you could get yourself killed - he’s scary.[/quote]
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