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[quote=Anonymous]It is and has been a dealbreaker for me but that's because I can't handle putting things on the back burner for two weeks while someone figures themself out. I don't need immediate resolution, but I couldn't handle this. My husband and I dealt with our differences in handling conflict when we were dating (he didn't do anything like this, but his reaction to things was rooted in his childhood and didn't make sense to me until we addressed it). My husband was willing to do the work to figure out what his childhood had done to him and take the steps to keep it from affecting us (as was I). So it's possible your boyfriend would be willing to do the same, but honestly, the intensity of his reaction makes me wonder if it will ever get better. At the end of the day though, the only question that matters is if it would be a dealbreaker for YOU. [/quote]
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