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Reply to "Do you expect (or appreciate) friends & family to remember your loved one's death anniversaries and reach out?"
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[quote=Anonymous]No. This is the kind of thing that will annoy me if people do it because I don't want someone else deciding when I'm going to think about that loss, bringing it up when I'm in a social setting (that one drives me nuts -- don't bring up my dead loved one at a party, please), or putting me in a situation of having to thank them for mentioning it to me. I know there are people who like it when you remember (my MIL for instance) and understand their reasons for it. But I don't like it and will generally be a little bit short with people when they do it because I just don't think it's their place. The first year is different, it's nice to have someone acknowledge the loss and check on you, but after that I'd prefer people let me decide if I want to discuss it.[/quote]
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