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[quote=Anonymous]First of all: document, document, document. Figure out if there are any witnesses. Try to be as validating but neutral as possible with DC on the behavior and ideally have DC hear that it's not OK from a 3rd party (counselor?). Take DC to the doctor's office for the physical symptoms and get those documented too. Second of all, parent classes or even better a parenting coach to try to get STBX-DH to stop this behavior, because as I'm sure you know your STBX is doing basically things number 1, 2, 3, and 4 NOT to do during divorce in order to keep kids from getting alientated. Your documentation can be used by your attorney to hopefully force this without a court order during some sort of settlement. [/quote]
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