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[quote=Anonymous]In the middle of a divorce with one DC. STBX-DH sees DH 1x/week by his choice, and recently I’ve learned through DC that these visitation times are incredibly fraught. STBX screams at DC, brings up things like how the divorce isn’t his fault (he initiated it), tells DC the custody arrangement isn’t fair (this is the parenting plan we currently have in place), and tries to make DC be the middle man to get information about be and/or circumvent talking to me by trying to get info about scheduling or logistics via DC. It sounds like he has brought up a lot of adult and legal stuff with DC, but I try not to ask DC anything and wait for DC to share things on their own.

STBX has turned angry and during brief drives to/from our house with DC, he has exhibited what sounds like road rage while driving DC- swearing, honking, chasing cars down. These are 10 block drives on 25 mph streets, so it’s not like he’s dealing with a stressful highway merge during rush hour or something.

The visits are so stressful that DC has been coming home with headaches and last weekend came through our front door and started throwing up.

Where do I take this information and how do I manage it? I scheduled a conversation with my attorney to talk about it but I’m not clear on if there are any next steps that can be taken. [/quote]

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