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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look, we’re not robots. None of us are going to be happy all the time. Some crankiness is okay. But what’s not okay is: 1. Being so grumpy all the time that people walk on eggshells 2. Not making repairs to the relationship afterwards. Yes, sometimes I get irritated and snap. But it’s only every couple months, and I always apologize afterwards. Defaulting to verbally expressing your anger and not apologizing afterwards isn’t okay. [/quote] This! Dh and I are generally upbeat and can lean on each other in times when things are hard. Every so often one of us is extra grumpy. I take it harder than he does when the other one is grumpy but that’s that. We always reflect after and apologize if it seemed totally unwarranted. Communication is so so key to a good relationship. Give each other space when needed but don’t just brush things under the rug. [/quote]
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