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[quote=Anonymous]"He’s exactly what I want in every way except..." Then he's not exactly what you want. You need to accept that nobody is going to be, or cut this one loose and keep looking for Mr. Perfect.

"I don’t know if he’s uncomfortable with what I want or just shy..." If you can't have this conversation, that's a you problem, especially since you consider yourself "older and more experienced". Use that maturity and have a conversation

"...it all feels very vanilla for me. Not that he’s not trying, but even just a bit of dirty talk once in awhile seems like a challenge for him." Did you try specifically asking for what you want? I'm guessing not, as your post is full of guesswork and assumptions.

Bro probably doesn't need an online class (and I'm joining the WTF chorus on that one), just a partner who can clearly articulate her needs and wants without being an emasculating, judgmental bag of B.

Also? You sound supremely boring in bed. Dirty talk is fine, but if you need it to get off, well, find someone whose fetishes match your own or expand your sexual repertoire, Ms. Allegedly Experienced.[/quote]

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